*Made myself a cup of hot milo n ponder into my deep thoughts..
Lesson 1: Independence
Did a quick search and the definition of independence is: freedom from control or influence of another or others. Base on the definition, isnt it then very difficult to obtain independence? Coz u coz to be free from control or influence. No matter wat others do or treat u, u would not b hurt or affected.
If indepence exists, does that means that love doesnt exist? Coz if u love or care for someone, u would somehow be controlled by that person n the person's action no matter wat would affect u to a certain degree.. Or rather if love exists, does that means that there is no independence?
Gonna learn to be more independent. Not going to be so dependent on others so tat I would not b affected tat much by others' action. Wont tat be better for myself? Its for my own good.. Ya I love others but I think I got to relearn how to love n protect myself more.. **Lost tat skill over the years..
