Sometimes, u may feel that the words u sae may mean nth but u nv know how deep a few words or the tone which u speak can hurt someone..
If u called someone 3 times almost consectively to let tat person know sth tat is related and that concern tat person but it has nth to do with u at all but instead of apperciation, wat u get was unkind attitude. Irritated n brush u away. How would u feel? The point is, u call that person not coz of urself but coz off tat person.. So unkind.. so terrible, so mean n so rude. It may seems nth as tat point of irritating feeling u have inside u seem to outweigh everything. But u nv know how much u have hurt the other person. In the future, would tat person still bother to let u know sth tat concern u but does not concern tat person? Why would tat person bother? It doesnt concern tat person at all.
A friend of my could remember everything i say... and whenever i repeat sth, he would sae 'ya i know, u said b4 already' He remembers every detail. Like wat kind of music u like, wat CCA u joined before when u were in pri sch, wat module u hate.. everything. I will always b so shock when he sae 'ya i know, u sae b4 le' hahaha doesnt he juz forget or not remember details. Like most of us, we dont remember wat our friends sae to us. We know but we dont remember. He told me the difference is whether u put ur heart into listening to the person's conversation or not. Or do u merely juz hear n not register since all those information does not aid u in anyway.. Wat benefit would it bring to u???
Chashing the 9pm show now. 'da nan ren, xiao nan ren' I think everything said is so true. And it make one realised. Since I started watching tat show, my hope marriage seems to have drop drastically. Y get urself into so much trouble???
